Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Page 13 - Loose Ends

Chapter 3         More Questions.

Loose Ends.
At the time of writing there are a few loose ends to be further researched, not at least what lies back beyond the partnership of Thomas and Emma MacKglew, where were they born? Who were their ancestors?  I had long considered that the answers lay elsewhere, away from our Bermondsey area maybe the West County of Somerset, now I am not so sure, for the Lighterman and Seal skinners may well have worked the river a Hundred years or more before, and its only with the advent of parish records around 1840 and the more detailed household census of 1861 onwards that we start to learn of our family.  The truth maybe that Bermondsey is our roots and the past there may need more extensive digging.

One loose end that needs to be  pursued is that of a Martha Caroline Pettard deceased 1863, she does not appear to fit within the family of the time and maybe the certificate of her death St Saviour 1d 11 will tell us more.

The family line of Alfred born 1872 contains a string of unknowns, the surname of his first wife for a start, was it Marsh?  Hopefully more will be revealed with the marriage certificate dated 1891 St. Saviour 1d 167.  Also confirmation of the parents of Christina Louis Pettard born 1897 St. Olave 1d 272, is she the daughter of Alfred and his first wife Elizabeth?  Lastly in this line and maybe the most interesting is the birth in 1917 of Alexander Alfred Pettard and his subsequent death in 1988, both events recorded Southwark 1d 92 and Southwark 15 31, respectively, also recording that he was the son of a Alfred and Lillian Pettard (Proctor).

Here may lay a hitherto unknown part of the family, one that may have lived in the area for 70 years or more.  Alfred would have been the uncle of my granddad William Francis making Alfreds son Alexander Alfred, a cousin of granddads.  It seems strange that such a family could exist in the area of Southwark with none of our line being aware, however, Margaret Tomlin quotes that on at least one occasion around the 1939/40s a woman named Pettard unknown to the family was questioned when she showed her ration book at one of the Leach family stalls, no reply came with the woman walking away.

This could have been Christina Louisa Pettard.  Research carried out by both Reginald Pettard and Dennis Ford established she was indeed the daughter of Alfred and wife Elizabeth, having died at the age of 98 in 1994, they also established that she died a spinster and had a theatrical career.  Cross reference was also made to the fact her mother Elizabeth may have been a ballet dancer.  I doubt whether this could have been a career, having married by the time she was 20 then giving birth four times before her death at 28, would appear to leave very little time for any career, maybe she trained as a dancer in her younger days.

   No further light is thrown on her up-bringing, whether she was raised by her father or by her aunt Eliza Marsh who we know she was living with at the age of 3.  Furthermore, its not clear if she lived her life in the area, although I am inclined to think she did, what family she had maintaining a presence in and around the area, plus the fact that Southwark has a long history connected to the theatre going back to William Shakespeare.  I am not sure where our researchers found the details of Christina Louisa but feel sure these must have been taken from her death certificate which is recorded somewhere in the area of Southwark.  We still do not have a date for the recorded death of her father Alfred and if we go back to Alfreds brother, Henry Joseph born 1868 very little of his life is known.  Apart from his birth date Henry is listed in both 1871 and 1881 census, remembering that all our line was listed wrongly as Pittards in the 1881 census; he does not appear in either of the 1891 or 1901 census with his whereabouts unknown.  However, he may be listed in the 1911 census as H. Pettard born 1868 district St. Olave Bermondsay.   Its clear that the census data for the area of Southwark and Bermondsay needs further researching.

With access to registration records on-line of census, birth, married and deaths it has been relatively easy to confirm almost all the research findings of Reginald Pettard and Dennis Ford.  As more data will undoubtedly become available in the future, so with it, more knowledge will be gained.  At this moment in time I am not sure if they traced Alfred Pettard and Lillian Proctor, a line that certainly produced one heir in Alexander Alfred Pettard.  I guess it will remain somewhat of a mystery why there appears to be no contact between the two lines of the family living in the same area, although in truth it may not be a mystery, just a case of two families living and socializing in different circles, which would be the case if Alfreds line were part of the arts and drama world of the time.
 The records related to Alfred and Lillian need to be examined to establish for sure whether or not that this Alfred is indeed who we think he is, or whether this is yet another family line of Pettards that exists within the Southwark area.  The research of both Reggie Pettard and Dennis Ford unearth many names that had no established connection or link with our line, so it seems more then strange that Alfred and Lillian are not mentioned in their findings.  Alfred would have been 45 years old about the time of birth of Alexander Alfred, not having any further details of Lillian and unaware of any deceased date for Alfred, it may prove necessary for clarification to obtain a copy of marriage certificate of Alfred and Lillian Proctor; December 1916 Southwark 1d 116 and also a copies of the birth and death certificates for Alexander Alfred, Southwark 1d 92 and Southwark 15 31 respectively.

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Page 12 - Margaret Pettard and Family Tree.

Margaret Pettard                         17 March 1940.

Margaret Pettard was born 1924 St Olave’s Parish Bermondsey, she was the only daughter of 5 children of Frank and Florence Pettard.  The family at this time was living at 2 Star Place Bermondsey, which was also the address at birth given for all her family except her eldest brother William John Francis Pettard (Bill), with his address at birth being 248 Bermondsey Street.

248 Bermondsey Street would appear to be the address of grandparents John and Emma Leach, her mother Florence was obviously living at home with her parents during this time of WWI with husband Frank away abroad in the army. I am reminded of a letter by J.Leach to his son-in-law Frank then in the Army which is headed
248 Bermondsey St, I must find time and space to include it some where within these pages. Just in passing grandma Leach was of Irish descent her maiden name being Moran.

At the age 6 Margaret’s mother Florence died giving birth to daughter Frances (Sally) who died shortly there after, at this time the family where still living 2 Star Place with William (Bill) aged 14, Johnny aged 9, Reggie age 6 and Dennis age 2. So it was that Margaret went to live with the Leach family, she recalls that she spent several weeks at a time living with her grandparents followed by several weeks living with Aunt Liz her mother’s sister. Margaret would be brought up with the Leach family until she was about 19. She returned to live with her father during the war until the home just off Great Dover Streets was badly damage by bomb blast, when she again was taken-in by Aunt Liz until her father Frank found a new abode for the family. After what can only be described has a somewhat disjointed and unsettled up bring Margaret finally makes her own way by moving to an apartment in Camberwell.

Margaret married Stanley Tomlin in 1949, always known as Stan and if not by name he was most certainly by nature and personality a Pettard.  Granddad and the brothers loved to argue when they got to together, which often or not was a Sunday afternoon at granddads house south of the river to us then living in Clarkenwell.  I took my uncle Stan to be a Pettard in those days such was his integration to the family, always in the thick of the arguments, often the perpetrator, and sometimes the initiator who would drop the bomb and then go put the kettle on.  He had a wonderful sense of humour with numerous one liners, I just wished I could remember them all, one I always remembers was the time at granddads he turned up with odd socks on, having been challenged by someone, maybe Reggie to the fact, he coolly replied that they were not odd and he had an identical pair at home in his sock draw, which of course was true.  I remember it being my uncle Stan that gave me my first Flying Angel, weird thing memories, they throw up the most obscure facts, for those not familiar with the term, a flying angel is when you are lifted up to sit on the shoulders of adult with your legs around their neck.  I just dont remember when I figured out that Stan was not a Pettard, when ever it was; it was after we left London for the green fields of Surrey.  I also remember Stan as being one of first mobile members of the family not recalling too many cars at that time, with maybe the exception of Johnny Pettard, although come to think of it Reggie was mobile, so I guess it was us that lagged behind being motorized.

 So it was that the family stayed in contact with the Tomlin driving down to us in Surrey many a Sunday.  Stan always said that it was well worth the trip just for one of Bills Sunday dinners, and I imagine it must have brought back memories to Margaret of those days back when her brother cooked the family dinner after their mum died.  When he was around nothing was left to waste and it was not by accident that there were no dogs in the family.  Margaret always appears to have the patience of a saint and quietly enjoyed the family banter being quick to see all the humour, so it was with her handling of my mum Mary, who could try the patience of a saint anyway. I often look back on those Sundays and the ones at granddads and can still hear the arguments now, like whether Egypt is in Africa, Asia Minor or the Middle East, and how my dad would never have a black daughter, although that point was always hard to follow.  Jesus Christ was a frequent topic, with granddad always insisting that whilst he did not believe in him, he most certainly existed.  Granddad was famous for his rock-cakes which normally were baked on Sunday, dont get me wrong I liked granddads cakes, but I do remember when all the brothers decided to see how high they could bounce one.  Often or not Reggie and Dennis would entertain with a song and piano rendering of a Johnny Ray or Guy Mitchell number, in those days song sheets were very popular out-selling records which would have been expensive.

So with these events my recognition of London fades and in a short space of time the Pettards of Bermondsey are no longer of Bermondsey or of London, now scattered throughout the Home Counties and north in Yorkshire.  I will always feel a part of that family that started so long ago with the Seal skinner and now so far away, I dream and wonder of the possibility of being transported back in time for a while aboard a Lighter amidst the dark and turning waters of the Thames.


Family of Magaret (Pettard) Tomlin and Stanley Tomlin
1949
Marries
Margaret
Stanley
1957
Pettard
Tomlin
Kevin






Tomlin
1984
Marries
Kevin
Penny
19891991

Tomlin
Chatten

Rachel
Phillip





Tomlin
Tomlin

Page 11 - Dennis Pettard and Family Tree.

Dennis Pettard (1928 to 1954)

Dennis Patrick Pettard was the first in now, a long line of Dennis Pettards within the family, his story however, was not to be a happy one.  Shortly after the death of his second child at infancy, Dennis died a terrible accident at an oil refinery when engaged on site and construction work.  The family through his son Dennis was to experience further heartbreaks as both his son Dennis and his grandson Dennis also died at early age.  I do remember my uncle Dennis well, he would never miss the opportunity to tease but always found time for me, including my first and only piano lesson. I also remember the funeral day and while I did not attend, I do record being with his son Dennis looking out through a neighbour’s window as the funeral cortège passed, a long time ago now but I expect ones first experience of death is ever lasting.



Family of Dennis Patrick and Sylvia Pettard
1949
Marries
1992
195?
Dennis
Sylvia
1949
195?
Patrick
Harmer
Pettard

Dennis

Margaret




Pettard

Pettard
about 1969
Marries
Dennis 
Caroline
196719751982
Pettard
Ann
Owen
Carrie
Dennis
Caddy




Ann
Pettard
Danniele




Pettard

Pettard

Page 10 - Reggie Pettard and Family Tree.

Reggie Pettard (1926 to 2000)

Reginald Francis Pettard known as Reggie fell in love with his number one fan, to explain, he was a good amateur football player and like all of his kind probably played on a bit long. The team just happened to be run by a manager with a teenage daughter Betty, auntie Betty as I will always call her knowing she would give me an odd look, if to say I am not that much older then you.  This touch line romance blossomed until Betty was old enough to marry.  Reggie like his brother Bill was a very industrious person being skilled in many trades and one who could probably build a house from start to finish.  I am not sure where this ability comes from; however, I know it has been handed down in the family to both Reggies and Bills sons and their sons.

Reggie was called up before the end of the war and was in the Fleet Air Arm maybe the signals core of the service.  Just a few days before he was due to leave for overseas duty and possible action; he received compassionate leave with the news that the family home had been bombed with injury to his father. The family was living just off
Great Dover Street
, Southwark when the local pub, ‘The Virginia Plant’, maybe another name for the Tobacco plant, received a direct hit from a V bomb, most of the immediate area was flattened so it could have been a V2 rocket bomb.  The impact on the Pettard abode was so severe that the property was totally demolished shortly thereafter. Granddad was at home sick at the time, the blast blew out his bedroom window and he was injured enough to be hospitalized, Margaret also at home caring for her sick father was thrown against the wall as she came down the stairs, Dennis was also thrown across the room when the front door blew in.  Neither Margaret nor Dennis was badly hurt but both had to wait amidst the ruins until their aunt Liz from the Leach family sent for them.  So, it must have been a worrying home coming for Reggie, but at least it kept him in England until the end of the war having missed his posting abroad.

Reggie would eventually leave the shores of England and along with Betty and their two children Karen and Dennis he would emigrate to Australia.  The experience did not prove to be a complete success and while it was a wonderful environment for the two children, it was exceedingly hard work for the parents to settle in a completely new land.  I well remember the day of their return, the family was there to welcome them back at London Airport, and the contrast between the fit and tanned faces of Karen and Dennis compared with that of stress and hardship of their parents faces, told a story.  This short history of the family is dedicated to the memory of Reggie.


Family of Reggie and Betty Pettard
1954
Marries
Reginald
Betty
19571959
Francis
Taylor




Pettard
Dennis

Karen



Keith

Louisa



Pettard

Pettard
1977
Marries
Dennis
Silvi
198119851990
Keith
Portelli
Pettard

Mark
Stacey
Cary



John
Jane
Ann



Pettard
Pettard
Pettard
1980
Marries
Karen
Christopher
19871992
Louisa
Frank




Pettard
Allum
Sarah
Kelly




Jane
Ann




Allum
Allum